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    <title type="text">Oh ... Really?</title>
    <subtitle type="text">Oh ... Really?:Jaded. Cynical. Justified.</subtitle>
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    <updated>2010-01-28T19:11:45Z</updated>
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    <entry>
      <title>Holiday Greetings to ALL of my friends</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/holiday-greetings-to-all-of-my-friends/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.758</id>
      <published>2009-12-21T00:28:44Z</published>
      <updated>2010-01-28T19:11:45Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Holidays"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C91/"
        label="Holidays" />
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        None of the cards offered for sale these days offered greetings that all of my friends would find acceptable and non-offensive, so I had to come up with a compromise. This should work for just about everyone ... <br />
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<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/holiday-greetings-to-all-of-my-friends/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/christmas" rel="tag">christmas</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/conservative" rel="tag">conservative</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/holiday" rel="tag">holiday</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/liberal" rel="tag">liberal</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>When routine isn&#8217;t so routine</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/when-routine-isnt-so-routine/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.757</id>
      <published>2009-10-30T01:10:01Z</published>
      <updated>2009-10-30T02:49:02Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Personal"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C2/"
        label="Personal" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">I</span> finally got around to getting a complete physical exam last week, my first in several years, and lemme tell ya, there was nothing routine about it. I am still shaking my head in disbelief over what has happened. I see the hand of God at work, but in ways that I do not yet understand. <br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/when-routine-isnt-so-routine/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/cardiac" rel="tag">cardiac</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/health" rel="tag">health</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/mammogram" rel="tag">mammogram</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/medical" rel="tag">medical</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/personal" rel="tag">personal</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Day 3 of the 40 Day Journey of Miracles</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/day-3-of-the-40-day-journey-of-miracles/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.756</id>
      <published>2009-09-24T03:58:45Z</published>
      <updated>2009-09-24T05:04:47Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Christianity"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C92/"
        label="Christianity" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">I</span> love the Bible verse of the day - so often it is just perfect. Today's is Hebrews 10:35-36 - &#8220;So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.&#8221;<br />
<br />
The last 3 days I have been feeling very out of place (the story of my life, actually) and normally, I would take this to mean that I should set aside my doubts, fears and misgivings and forge ahead ... but then I wonder, do I really know what God's will is for me?<br />
<br />
As I begin this journey into 40 days of prayer for miracles, I am feeling more and more under attack. I don't know that I have the strength to persevere. <br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/day-3-of-the-40-day-journey-of-miracles/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Bible" rel="tag">Bible</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Christian" rel="tag">Christian</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/miracles" rel="tag">miracles</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Do you believe in Miracles?</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/do-you-believe-in-miracles/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.755</id>
      <published>2009-09-21T02:21:06Z</published>
      <updated>2009-09-21T04:48:07Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Christianity"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C92/"
        label="Christianity" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">M</span>any people do not believe in miracles anymore, or think they are the stuff of Biblical times and no longer relevant or even possible in our modern world. But miracles are indeed very real, very relevant and are happening everyday. When miracles happen, we have proof that God exists, and is moving in our world ... yes, even today. God today is the same God as He was thousands of years ago, and will be forever. <br />
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<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/do-you-believe-in-miracles/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Bible" rel="tag">Bible</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Christian" rel="tag">Christian</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/fasting" rel="tag">fasting</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/miracles" rel="tag">miracles</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Defining oneself</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/defining-oneself/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.754</id>
      <published>2009-09-18T03:19:24Z</published>
      <updated>2009-09-18T23:51:25Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Christianity"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C92/"
        label="Christianity" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">T</span>he question that spans the ages ... Who am I? <br />
<br />
Another blogger asked this question today, in terms of moving beyond labels and titles .. I pondered it briefly before answering the question for myself. It's simple, really ... but very complex, and pretty darn awesome.<br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/defining-oneself/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Christian" rel="tag">Christian</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/discipleship" rel="tag">discipleship</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/personal" rel="tag">personal</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>A healthcare nightmare</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/a-healthcare-nightmare/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.753</id>
      <published>2009-09-01T03:10:48Z</published>
      <updated>2009-09-01T03:56:49Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">T</span>he topic of a boycott being organized against Totes, the company that brought us Isotoner gloves and slippers and a huge variety of bags and luggage, floated across my social media radar ... aka Twitter and Facebook. Apparently, the Totes company <a target="_blank" href="http://bit.ly/19STkc">fired a woman</a> for taking unauthorized breaks. The reason she was taking these unauthorized breaks was so she could pump her breastmilk for her baby. Being that I was at work, I didn't have much time to research all the details of the situation, but it would seem reasonable that taking unauthorized breaks could be a condition for discipline, up to and including termination. I do not know if the woman attempted to negotiate extra break time, and was refused, or if she just took the extra break time. I would hope that a company would allow for time for parenting obligations. With some give and take on both sides, an agreement can usually be reached. <br />
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<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/a-healthcare-nightmare/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/boycott" rel="tag">boycott</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/healthcare" rel="tag">healthcare</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Wha .. ??</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/wha-/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.752</id>
      <published>2009-08-11T18:08:48Z</published>
      <updated>2009-08-11T18:14:49Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Blogging"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C1/"
        label="Blogging" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">T</span>he comment policy here on my poor little neglected blog is posted above the comment entry form (unless you are a member of the site and are logged in). It's pretty simple ... no personal attacks, no trolls, no spam. I will delete at my own discretion. I used to moderate the comments, but I am not always near a computer where I can approve them so they post. I have to balance that with the risk of getting posts with spam comments. Most are annoying, some are offensive - I HATE that spammers are put their crap on the post about my father's recent passing, but every now and then ... <br />
<br />
Where does this junk come from?<br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/wha-/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/blogging" rel="tag">blogging</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/spam" rel="tag">spam</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Sitting in my father&#8217;s chair</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/sitting-in-my-fathers-chair/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.751</id>
      <published>2009-08-04T04:19:26Z</published>
      <updated>2009-08-04T05:14:27Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Family"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C83/"
        label="Family" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">I</span>t is late at night as I write this, the house is silent after a long day of running here and there, getting things done, sharing the latest of our family's news with friends and dear ones far and wide. But this is not my house, it is my parent's. I sit here in my father's chair, reflecting, praying and contemplating. He will never sit here again. July 31, 2009 marked the day of his passing, when God called him home. I am here to try to hold together the shattered pieces of my mother's life, so she will not have to be alone. <br />
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<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/sitting-in-my-fathers-chair/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/death" rel="tag">death</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/family" rel="tag">family</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/personal" rel="tag">personal</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Help me decorate my room!</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/help-me-decorate-my-room/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.750</id>
      <published>2009-07-29T04:14:31Z</published>
      <updated>2009-07-29T05:00:33Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Happy Crap"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C84/"
        label="Happy Crap" />
      <category term="Home Life"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C80/"
        label="Home Life" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">Y</span>es I have been sadly negligent in the upkeep of my site. So sue me. I've been busy taking care of aging parents, young adult children, a demanding but satisfying career, and a new husband ... not necessarily in that order. When not busy with all that, I have been gardening, redecorating, knitting and soon will be sewing on my new sewing machine.<br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/help-me-decorate-my-room/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/decorating" rel="tag">decorating</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>How Dare You! An answer to gay marriage advocates</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/how-dare-you-an-answer-to-gay-marriage-advocates/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.749</id>
      <published>2009-05-13T04:12:13Z</published>
      <updated>2009-05-13T05:26:14Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Christianity"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C92/"
        label="Christianity" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">T</span>he local newspaper, The Knoxville News-Sentinel, in its <a target="_blank" href="http://www.knoxnews.com/">online version</a>, provides a section where readers can leave comments on articles. Reading these reminds one of a 7 year old's birthday party with too many kids who have ingested insane amounts of sugar and have no adult supervision, and they have fallen to squabbling over every little thing. It provides a very sad glimpse into the reality of the levels of intellect in this area. The more controversial the topic, the more numerous and insane the comments become. The article about how the state of <a target="_blank" href="http://www.knoxnews.com/news/2009/may/12/state-marries-same-sex-couple-marriage-ruled-inval/">Tennessee "accidentally" married two men</a> ... to each other ... while one was in prison no less! Well, there are over 500 comments there as of this writing. I got about 20 in and wanted to weep for the obvious decline in the human condition. Rather than entering the fray there, I decided to post my thoughts here. I, um ... got a little carried away, so grab a nice beverage, get comfy, open your heart and mind (but don't bleed out or become brainless), and let's have a little chat. Mind your manners!<br />
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<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/how-dare-you-an-answer-to-gay-marriage-advocates/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Bible" rel="tag">Bible</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/christianity" rel="tag">christianity</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/gay marriage" rel="tag">gay marriage</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>The Pastor Wore Flip&#45;flops</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/the-pastor-wore-flip-flops/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.748</id>
      <published>2009-04-20T02:26:51Z</published>
      <updated>2009-04-20T06:28:52Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Christianity"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C92/"
        label="Christianity" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">T</span>he churches I went to while growing up were very formal. Everyone wore their "Sunday Best" - men in jackets and ties, women in dresses, even little kids were dressed up with their faces scrubbed clean and shiny. The services were mostly serious, with all due pomp and circumstance. After each hymn or choir song, the only thing you could hear was rustling of the church bulletins, hymnals and Bibles, and the occasional cough - which would surely merit a scowl of disapproval at the one who dared to disturb the solemnity of the service. The mood lightened when services were over as the parishioners gathered in the lobby to meet, greet and mingle. But that is also where the infamous <a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Church_Lady">Church Ladies</a> could be found, sharply addressing any and all shortcomings they found. (Oh yes, they were alive and well long before Dana Carvey made her a cultural icon!) <br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/the-pastor-wore-flip-flops/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Bible" rel="tag">Bible</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/Christianity" rel="tag">Christianity</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/church" rel="tag">church</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/prophecy" rel="tag">prophecy</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>So, we went to this little party</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/so-we-went-to-this-little-party/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.747</id>
      <published>2009-04-16T23:50:52Z</published>
      <updated>2009-04-17T05:36:53Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Neat Stuff"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C34/"
        label="Neat Stuff" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">A</span>ll across this great nation, patriots of all ages, colors, backgrounds, and yes, even political party affiliation ... we all came together to raise our voices as one, to send a message to the President and to Congress.<br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/so-we-went-to-this-little-party/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/teaparty" rel="tag">teaparty</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Wedding Pictures!</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/wedding-pictures1/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.746</id>
      <published>2009-04-15T04:43:44Z</published>
      <updated>2009-04-16T20:48:45Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Happy Crap"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C84/"
        label="Happy Crap" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">J</span>ust a few for now ... maybe more later. .<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/wedding-pictures1/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/family" rel="tag">family</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/friends" rel="tag">friends</a>,  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/wedding" rel="tag">wedding</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>The Wedding</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/the-wedding/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.745</id>
      <published>2009-04-08T02:34:29Z</published>
      <updated>2009-04-08T04:33:30Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Happy Crap"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C84/"
        label="Happy Crap" />
      <category term="Matters of the Heart"
        scheme="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/C88/"
        label="Matters of the Heart" />
      <content type="html"><![CDATA[
        <span class="dropcap">T</span>he deed has been done. We wed, we honeymooned, and now we are back to Real Life&trade; <br />
<br />
Now the real adventure begins!<br />
<br />
<br />...<br />Link to <a href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/comments/the-wedding/">post</a>
        <br /><br />Keywords for this entry: <br />  <a href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/wedding" rel="tag">wedding</a>
      ]]></content>
    </entry>

    <entry>
      <title>Goin&#8217; to the Chapel</title>
      <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lissakay.com/index.php/weblog/goin-to-the-chapel/" />
      <id>tag:lissakay.com,2009:/1.744</id>
      <published>2009-03-28T05:27:23Z</published>
      <updated>2009-03-28T05:37:25Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>LissaKay</name>
            <email>lissakay(at)gmail</email>
            <uri>http://www.lissakay.com</uri>      </author>

      <category term="Happy Crap"
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        <span class="dropcap">W</span>ell, not exactly the chapel, but we are gonna get married!<br />
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