Oh ... Really?

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The worst of it ... many months ago, my daughter cried to me that her father and brothers were teasing her about being fat. Then some time after that, some punk kid said something to her in an Instant Message. As I comforted her, I told her she has three choices ... she can accept herself the way she is and learn to love herself even if she doesn't look like the emaciated models in music videos (Brittney can FOAD!) ... or she can do something about it, and I would help her learn good dietary habits ... or she can just be miserable. Somehow, some way ... I suppose because of her father's influence that I am nothing but evil ... she has this twisted around and sat up there in court and said that I called her fat! Those statements right there convinced me beyond a shadow of a doubt that he has been on a concerted campaign to alienate her from me. Add to that the statements she has made, regarding our divorce and other events relating to that ... she knows detail that I know I never shared with her and that only could have come from her father ... with the intention of making her hate me. Her mother.

How in the hell could any loving, reasonable, sane parent want their child to hate their other parent? To tell her untrue and twisted things that would engender that hate? What parent would want their child to hate at all? That has got to be the sickest, most pitiful thing in the world. Her father has even said that he wished I was dead ... and that if he thought he could get away with it, he would do it himself.

That is the same father that took a garden hose to his son's backside, turned it black and blue from the middle of his back to his knees, tortured him for hours on end forcing him to hold heavy books until he formed callouses on his wrists and elbows ... then denies he did anything wrong, has refused to apologize to the child, wanted people to feel sorry for him and then does not even so much as pick up the phone to see how the child is after three years of not seeing him when he had every right to ... he has made ZERO effort to re-establish the relationship with his son, after very nearly destroying him. My son tried to kill himself because he believes his father hates him. But does his father care about that? Oh why hell fucking no he doesn't! And as a cherry on top of this vile, hateful sundae of fatherly wretchedness ... he tried to use his son as part of his daughter's excuse for avoiding her mother. They tried to convince the court that my son is some kind of violent monster, that he is too dangerous for her to be around. They blamed his bipolar disorder saying that he is unpredictable and aggressive. There is only one person in this family that has resorted to violence ... that would be daddy dearest. And his abuse of his son still continues. All for the purpose of trying to hurt the mother of his children.

That is the definition of a pathetic father ...

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